Every day I read some craptastic drivel on someone’s blog that makes me want to barf. Today it was some stunned wonder telling a dear friend she should suck it up. How many times have you been told that? I couldn’t begin to count. Why is it that everyone is suppose to tip toe around infertiles while they get “paper pregnant” but nobody is willing to offer a kind word to an adoptee who is hurting over the loss of their family or a natural mother who is grieving the loss of their child?
Oh right. Sorry, my bad. I forgot that adoption is all about the PAPs. How dare any of us mention pain or sadness when we are sitting here enjoying the “better ” life. -snort-